Sometimes the teachers become students. Well, that only indicates how good the teacher is!
Those who know me know that I am big of the positive mindset. I strongly believe that we manifest what we think about. Also, I am one of the eternal optimists and I constantly and always look at the bright side of things.
Having said all of the above, I am also human. I do get angry, sometimes and forget to look at the glass as half full. Most of the times, this happens when I come home tired, after a long day and I find the house in a mess. When I find that things are not where they are supposed to be.
This happened one of this days, and I kind of lost my temper. Abhinav and Kaamya helped me put things right.
And then Abhinav said, ” Ma, what’s the use of being positive all the time, when you are not positive at the exact time when you need to be positive the most”. Seems a bit of a tongue twister, but read it again slowly and you will understand.
The Lesson
What he says is correct. It’s easy to be positive, when everything is OK. The real test is to remain positive when it is most difficult to believe things will be right.
The time to dig in to your reserves and bring out your courage, commitment and belief in yourself is when the world around you is crumbling. Exactly when there appears to be no path forward, that is the time, you need to have the confidence that you can create your own path.
How to help yourself:
When you spill a cup of coffee, what falls out? Coffee, right? Not tea, not whiskey.
When there is turbulence, what is in is what spills out.
If you feed yourself a constant diet of negativity, self doubt , fear and hatred, don’t be surprised if these emotions pour out of you when you look within yourself in adverse circumstances. Instead instill courage, positivity, optimism, confidence and gratitude within you. Make these qualities the cornerstone of your everyday life when things are going well. When things are going well, that is the perfect time to cultivate them.
With all these positive emotions and qualities jostling within you, it will be easier to combat the hard times.
As for me, I have learned my lesson. And I thank my son for it.
I am looking for an opportunity to put it into practice!!